You control the sequence, not their answers. The doctrine draws the line exactly there: every appointment needs direction, and questions are your greatest control tool — but the moment you start steering what they say instead of what happens next, you've become the pushy rep the homeowner has to defend against.
The short answer
Control starts before the presentation: the entry, the table, the warm-up's agenda are all set by you, and that structure is the control. Inside it, the homeowner is free — their answers run where they run, and your job is to use those answers to earn the next step. Leadership in the appointment always has a reason the homeowner can see: we measure before we talk numbers because the numbers have to be exact. A process that explains itself rarely needs to defend itself.
How it runs
Don't chase every rabbit. A tangent you follow out of politeness is a step you surrendered; park it and return to the sequence. Don't let the investment hijack the appointment. A number demanded in minute ten gets the documented treatment — the process answers it in its place, not on demand. Don't become defensive. The moment you defend, the appointment becomes a debate and you are no longer leading it. And underneath all of it: control your own emotional state first — a rep who needs the sale cannot run a calm sequence, because every answer starts sounding like a threat.
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